Everybody knows someone who is in a difficult or failing marriage, or maybe it's YOU…..
Nobody said marriage was easy, and if they did, they lied. Finding a soul mate, saying “I do” and living happily after is what everyone searches for. If you're lucky enough to tie the knot, everything is great BUT, being married to a firefighter is not the same as being with a man who works a regular 9-5. Firefighters are a unique breed of their own, they have an essential & stressful job and have certain cultural expectations of their spouses and family life. Being emotionally supportive and understanding their stress but still needing them to be present and understand the stress we experience as their wife is indeed a challenge. Marriage and parenthood are not easy, especially when “Mistress Fire” is present then, at some point in the marriage, things start to go wrong. The divorce rate for firefighters is three times that of the general population, which is the highest rate in the nation. A functioning, long-term marriage in this profession is uncommon and a happy, thriving, intimate one is rare.
No one ever gets married with the intent of getting divorced and you never think that there will be a day when things are not as they are now. Stress, arguments, loss of communication, health issues and maybe infidelity keep you awake at night wondering what you can do to keep your family together.
You try everything to revive your marriage, you pray, talk to family & friends and even let things go that would normally upset you. You go out of your way to do things for your spouse, but still nothing seems to get your marriage back on track. The depression can overtake your life and you may be just standing there watching your family and the life that you have come to love slip away.
As their wife, we believe that being a firefighter should never take priority over being a husband and father. We know they are providing for the family, we know they have a love for the job and indeed it takes a special kind of man to be a firefighter, but it's their family that needs them the most. We need them to be present both physically and emotionally on off days. Their duties as a firefighter do not exempt them from the duties of being Husband and Dad and performing household duties, but unfortunately this is where part of the problems begins.
It’s perfectly normal in a marriage to have disagreements and times when things involve a little more effort than they used to. In an ideal world we would sit and talk about these changes and differences in a calm and rational manner, and establish an outcome and move on. Unfortunately things don’t always work like that. Its all too easy to get caught up in the moment and let things deteriorate to the point where you are both wondering why you are still in it.Your health is in free fall due to the enormous stress and your whole life and future happiness, something that at one time seemed so certain, now hangs precariously in the balance, waiting for you to make the next move.
Make your next move, your best move and Discover helpful advice on how to make a marriage work and assistance with lowering arguments. Help rediscover your love and the feelings for each other. Don't you think your partner and your marriage deserve it?
It can be a real challenge to adapt to and this Save My Marriage course will help you to:
See the six things that show us a divorce is on the horizon.
What it takes to build a marriage that is going to last.
How to bring the love back into the relationship.
How to make sure that you are not growing apart from your spouse.
Those things that kill a relationship such as being a workaholic.
How to spot the number one cause of a divorce and how to stop it from happening
Your marriage CAN be saved. This Save My Marriage course is a highly detailed guide that offers practical advice on how married couples can overcome any marital problems and just as the name suggests, the step-by-step program provides you with numerous methods on how you can save your marriage from a breakdown while giving you exercises to beat challenges you facing as a couple. The Save My Marriage system will strip back the lies you have been told and teach you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that will not only bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, but will give you a solid foundation from which to build an even better marriage and future.
If you don't make the decision to take action and get this area of your life sorted out right now, your firefighter hubby is going to walk out of your life into the arms (and the bed) of someone else and them their next firewife. Do you really want to let that happen? You owe it to yourself to make informed decisions and to give your marriage the best possible chance of long term success. This course will help you to heal your marriage and you will never face the searing, body-numbing pain of a marriage crisis or breakup ever again. If you're serious about saving your family & marriage and starting a new love life with your spouse then click on the link below to sign up for this course.