Community Guidelines

The FireWives community was created to be a safe, supportive space for women living the FireWife life.

These guidelines exist to protect that space.

They are not rules meant to police behavior.
They are shared expectations that allow real connection, trust, and sisterhood to exist.

By participating in the FireWives community, you agree to honor the spirit of this space and the women within it.

This Is a Safe Space

FireWives is a judgment-free community.

Every woman arrives with her own experiences, emotions, and story. All of them are valid. Disagreement can exist here, but disrespect cannot.

There is no tolerance for:

  • Shaming

  • Gossip

  • Bullying

  • Harassment

  • Personal attacks

  • Dismissive or belittling language

This community is built on kindness, empathy, and mutual respect.

Confidentiality Matters

What is shared here stays here.

The FireWives community is a place where women speak honestly about their lives, their families, and their challenges. That level of openness requires trust.

Do not:

  • Share screenshots

  • Repeat private conversations

  • Disclose personal stories outside the community

  • Share identifying details without permission

Protecting each other’s privacy protects the entire sisterhood.

Support Over Drama

This is not a place for conflict, competition, or negativity.

We choose:

  • Support over criticism

  • Understanding over assumptions

  • Listening over reacting

If something feels heavy, confusing, or emotional, approach it with care. If a conversation begins to feel unproductive or harmful, step back and allow space.

FireWives exists to lighten the load, not add to it.

Respect Different Experiences

There is no single way to live the FireWife life.

Some women work outside the home. Some don’t.
Some are new to this life. Some have lived it for decades.
Some are mothers. Some are not.

Every experience deserves respect.

Avoid comparisons. Avoid “should” language. Avoid minimizing another woman’s reality because it differs from your own.

Mental Health and Care

FireWives encourages openness, honesty, and support. However, this community is not a replacement for professional help.

If you or someone else is in crisis, please seek immediate professional or emergency support.

We share resources. We offer encouragement. We stand together.
We do not diagnose, pressure, or shame.

Moderation and Accountability

FireWives is moderated with intention and care.

If guidelines are violated, action may be taken to protect the community. This may include reminders, temporary removal of content, or removal from the community if necessary.

These decisions are made thoughtfully, always with the goal of preserving a safe and respectful space.

Our Shared Commitment

By being here, you are agreeing to show up with respect, honesty, and care.

You are agreeing to:

  • Protect one another

  • Speak with intention

  • Listen with empathy

  • Honor the trust this space requires

FireWives is not social media.
It is a community.

And communities thrive when the women inside them choose to protect what they’re building together.

Forged in fire.
United in sisterhood.